Tuesday, February 16, 2010

To be confident

1. When I was a child,teachers taught us to be confident.They also told us many stories about how to be a confident person.At that time,I couldn't understand "confidence",I just thought we should be brave when we are doing something.I did not realize the importance of being confident until I grow up.
2. As we know,modern society is developing fast,our world is changing all the time.So everyone has pressure from the challenges of future.We have to be confident to face them.
3.In my opinion,being confident is the key to success,if you get it,you get the power to do everything,if we are afraid of the problems and difficulties,we may fail at the start.
4.Confidence shouldn't be base on our imagination,we should take action.It is a trust to ourselves,if we trust ourselves and work hard,so that we can get your goals closer and achieve them.
5.If your are not confident,you should try your best to change the situation,because it is really important for us and our future.Because believing ourselves is also a faith.
6.But how to build confidence in our heart? For those successful person's experience tells us the principle.We should try to talk to others bravely and actively,that will get people close to you,so that you can communicate with others and know them well.A confident expression on your face,a confident gesture and word will really help you to build the faith of confidence.
7.On the other hand,we should find our advantage,that means we should find what are we really good at,and focus on it,than you will find yourself in the work,at the same time confidence is being build during the process.
8.Someone also thinks “confidence” in wrong concept.They think people can not be successful without confidence.In the other words,people who have confidence will achieve their dreams and be successful.I think it is completely wrong.
9.Because if a person is over confident,that will make him get confused.It can lead a wrong way if someone cannot distinguish confidence and proud.Modesty makes people moving forward,being cocky at success,you will lose your way.
10.At last,lets learn to be confident,try to face what you are scared,practice yourself in the challenges and make a better future for ourselves!

12 comments:

  1. we need confidence to beat down scared feeling of psychology.confidence sometimes seems the stimulant or alcohol that urges us to beyond whatever we are used doing or avoiding something shouldn't appeared such as suffering or regret.On the contrary,usually it brings us surprise.i still clearly remember a words said by a famous general,on battlefield his enemy is not a army which stands on the other side,also not himself,is the fear in his mind.This man named Maozedong the first president of the people republic of china.I believe only a strong confidence can get scared feeling out as you meet some big problems.

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  2. Yes, I agree with your opinion. Confidence is really important to people's character, and somehow it's also important to one's successful.In many situation, such as interview.Confidence is one of the most important things they will see about you. Also, confidence can give you brave to do things, and make a successful life.

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  3. I agree, everyone shold have self-confideance if he want to be seccussful. The achivement is 1% idea and 99% working,so if you do not have confident about yourself you will not achive.Confident it is an important factor to achive because it keep you working hard.If you are manger you need to be confident. Because this will effect in your empoloyies. Everyone need to be confidet about him self.

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  4. I agree with you.usually the parents teach their children to be confident.I think this is an important thing that people need it. People need confident in many situation,work, school,business,relationship with other,the whole activities' life. This adjective come when the person feel it. If he/she doesn't feel it then he/she will not be confident.Sometime some people have more confident in wrong way. I think that called conceited.This a bad level in confident.

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  5. I think your opinion is good. I agree with you, from my own opinion, i think as a person ,you should be very confidence. But sometimes be more confidence is a little bit bad for you. First, i want to talk about people should have confidence.when we study in universitu, eapecially in America, if we want to our professor know us, we should always speak in the class. Many students always not sure about their answers, so they do not want to speak a lot in class, even never talk. And we know we will have many presentations in class, if we do not have enough confidence, we can not speak individualy and let teacher understand you.Also in the future, if you want to produce a product to a comsumer, you have no confidence to talk, how can they going to buy your stuff. But from another way, some people always be very confidence, they think they can be very succeeful in each ways, so if they have a little bit problems or they fail for something. They will be vary unappy, i think people should balance this. We should have enough confidence but not too much.

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  6. In my opinion confidence is really important for people, so I agree with you. we know as human we will face different kinds of diffcult, we can not defeat them without confidence. for instance, sport players should always competition, they will meet different opponents, sometimes they can meet a player who has similar competitive ability, in that case, they should compare who has more confidence than another player. so confidence can decide the result. we are students, confidence is important for us too. if we have confidence, we can study well, and never give up.

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  7. Yes, that is right. There are several characteristics if a person has it he will be a successful person, and that beside confidence, smart, knowing what he want, knowledge etc. But I don't know about what you wrote how a person can gain confidence is right or wrong. I believe there is strong relate between confidence and deep knowledge with emphasis deep.

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  8. I agree with your opinion. You are right. Confidence is significient for our life, because we can not survive without confidence. If we were shy and hesitated too much, we would miss opportunity at competition. When I was young, my parents wanted to me that I get a confidence more and more. Because I did not like to take center stage. However, I think that excessive confidence is come across as such as snob by people. Too much as bad as too little.

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  9. I agree with you. We have to be confidence. I think the way lead us to success not only confidence but also understand ourselves clearly. Self-confidence helps us have ambitions for everything and self-understanding makes us know what we can do. As some people, they have self-confidence, though a long time hard working, they still don’t success. They don’t think about themselves clearly. They don’t know what they can do.

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  10. I agree with you. Confidence is very important to everyone. It is always playing a important role to lead you to success. At first you should have confidence, you will to do the things you want to do. However, we should not only have confidence but also the effort. We should conbine this two points, and then, we will be successed.

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  11. I agree with you.Confidence is important in our whole life. we can't lose it, if we lose it, we can't do things well. For everything, confidence is the most part of it.Everything we need the most is confident to support us. That can cause us more easy to be successful.

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  12. 1. When I was a child, teachers taught us to be confident. They also told us many stories about how to be a confident person. At that time,I couldn't understand "confidence". I just thought we should be brave when we WERE doing something. I did not realize the importance of being confident until I GREW up.
    2. As we know, modern society is developing fast, AND our world is changing all the time. So everyone has pressure from the challenges of THE future. We have to be confident to face them.
    3.In my opinion,being confident is the key to success.If you get it, you get the power to do everything. BUT if we are afraid of the problems and difficulties, we may fail at the start.
    4.Confidence shouldn't be baseD on our imagination. We should take action. It is * trust to ourselves. If we trust ourselves and work hard, * we can get CLOSER TO OUR goals * and achieve them.
    5.If your are not confident, you should try your best to change the situation because it is really important for YOU and YOUR future. THAT IS Because believing ourselves is also a faith.
    6.But how CAN WE build confidence in our heart? THE EXPERIENCE OF those successful PEOPLE tells us the principle. We should try to talk to others bravely and actively, AND that will get people TO BE close to you so that you can communicate with others and know them well. A confident expression on your face, a confident gesture and A CONFIDENT word will really help you to build the faith of confidence.
    7.On the other hand,we should find our advantage, WHICH means we should find what we ARE really good at, and focus on it, than you will find yourself in the work(?), at the same time, confidence is being BUILT during the process.
    8.SOME PEOPLE * THINK “confidence” in A wrong concept. They think people can not be successful without confidence.In * other words, people who have confidence will achieve their dreams and be successful. I think it is completely wrong.
    9.Because, if a person is OVERCONFIDENT, that will make him get confused. It can lead HIM a wrong way if someone cannot distinguish confidence FROM proud. Modesty makes people MOVE forward. Being cocky at success, you will lose your way.
    10.At last, LET'S learn to be confident, try to face what you are scared OF, practice yourself in the challenges, and make a better future for ourselves!

    First of all, make sure to put a space after a period and a comma. Also you have run-on sentences. Be careful of them, too.
    Confidence is important and also necessary. I used to coach tennis to junior high school students, so I often talked about that, and I introduced some training to build up confidence in them. I personally think people should not be confident when they are preparing for some thing, such as matches for sports and exams for studying. If we have confidence without any groundings, that is only conceit as Essraa wrote, and it won't elevate you any higher. People study or practice because they are still not confident enough. However, when they need to make the most of it, they should be confident in order to be able to perform at their best. This is difficult to switch from non-confident to confident, but we can do that through training. And overall, be confident. Please believe in yourself.

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